Dr. Ruth | That Was Abuse on Instagram: "Welcome to That Was Abuse: Breaking Point. Everything I’m about to share happened over just four days. Four days that ended with the moment I realized: I wasn’t safe. I had no idea what my ex was capable of. And I needed to leave. … Day 3: 1pm We’d spent hours building furniture. But the thing that really set him off? My cables. He called them a “rat’s nest.” Told me to fix it. Tried to rip one out himself. And when I stopped him, he snapped: “So I can ju