Calling all my lovely long-term lovers who have made it into that enviable Serious Relationship stage: Can we all get honest about something for a second? Like, specifically, the fact that once you’ve ...

Over the long-term, what one partner in a two-person relationship wishes to avoid, so too does the other partner -- and what one wants to achieve, so does the other. These effects can be observed ...

People seek out romantic relationships for different reasons. In doing so, they often make decisions and trade-offs about what they want in a partner. They may also have different stories about love ...

What it is that makes a relationship last for the long haul is one of those mysteries on par with wondering what we're doing on Earth, if aliens walk among us, or why some people like sweet more than ...

I blogged about TRIP goals and principled negotiation here. TRIP stands for various goals operating in a conflict: Topic Goals are the real-world outcomes in play; Relational Goals apply to the kind ...